I am pretty lazy when it comes to configuring looks of forums. I just don't care enough to customize a "personal" feel for every forum I am on. So I don't pay too much attention to the customization stuff.
Yes its true, after months on this forum...I just saw this. When you click to view your new PM's, in the bottom left corner there is the 'message colors'. You can define 'Marked message', 'Replied to message', 'Message from friend', OR 'Message from foe'!
Heh. I don't know why, but I find that extremely amusing on this forum. I thought about marking everyone as a foe just so when I get PM's they show up as such. Then the lazy factor kicked in and I didn't care to do that much effort. I still may mark some random name as foe just cause I can.
I think why I find it so funny is cause I don't see that as something that would be used much around here....maybe its there just for the people who take pictures at the meetings...
[edit] Ha ha! Found one enemy! Spelling! I really gotta start using spell check more often...